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Silent Sorrow: When a Catalyst Relationship Ends by Barb Rowlandson
Feb 24, 2023 | Relationships
Catalyst relationships have a way of turning our lives upside down. In the LGBTQIA+ community a catalyst is a person who helps us realize that we might not be as straight as we thought we were. A...
Share the Love Week 4 Catalyst Relationship | Season 4 Episode 6
Feb 24, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 4, Relationships
https://youtu.be/3uuJ2__dL-Y Ready for some laughter, tears, and lots of wise, loving advice? Our final Share the Love February episode of the Coming Out & Beyond podcast has dropped, and it's a...
Share The Love Week 3 Joy | Season 4 Episode 5
Feb 17, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QpTJuJG9_W8 We're sharing the love in February with podcast listeners! This episode is all about finding, celebrating, and cultivating joy after coming out later in...
Share the Love Week 2 Grief | Season 4 Episode 4
Feb 10, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Grief, Podcast Season 4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abwzxRkd2Fo We're sharing the love in February with podcast listeners! This episode is dedicated with love to all of you in the late-in-life community who are...
Share the Love Week 1 Divorce | Season 4 Episode 3
Feb 3, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 4, Relationships
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3n3Ia__c2dQ We're sharing the love in February with podcast listeners! If you're someone in the late-in-life community who needs some loving encouragement about...
Coming Out & Beyond Season 4 Episode 2 | Joan’s Story
Jan 20, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKqtsNifVkE&feature=youtu.be Joan Alexander is a Spiritual Director & Supervisor who came out as a lesbian in her mid-forties. Twenty years later, she is here...
Coming Out & Beyond Season 4 Episode 1 | Stephannie’s Story
Jan 6, 2023 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 4
https://youtu.be/URiNibi0SAQ Stephannie Weikert is a Certified Yoga Therapist and creator of the Make Peace with Stress method. She wants to live in a world where all women flourish because she...
I’m Glad You’re An Ally, but Please Don’t Kiss Me On The Lips By Barb Rowlandson
Jan 6, 2023 | LGBTQ+
By Barb Rowlandson In 2017, I joined the Alphabet Mafia, and let me tell you: flipping from the straight world into the Queer world is WILD. Up until my gay reckoning, I'd been with the same man for...
Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out 5. Joy
Dec 13, 2022 | Coming Out
https://youtu.be/QpTJuJG9_W8 Anne-Marie Zanzal and Barb Rowlandson as we discuss finding JOY!!!! in the coming out journey. In the beginning we know it feels very difficult to find joy in the...
Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out 4. Grief
Dec 13, 2022 | Coming Out
https://youtu.be/abwzxRkd2Fo Join Anne-Marie Zanzal and Barb Rowlandson as we discuss grief In the coming out journey. In the beginning we know it feels very difficult and we sometimes grieve many...
Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out 3. Internalized Homophobia
Dec 13, 2022 | Coming Out
https://youtu.be/mqgbQ0YMbsw Join Anne-Marie Zanzal and Barb Rowlandson as we discuss internalized homophobia or heterosexism. What is this? Internalized Homophobia is when LGBTQIA+ people listen to...
Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out 2. Divorce
Dec 13, 2022 | Coming Out
https://youtu.be/3n3Ia__c2dQ *Before Coming Out Join Anne-Marie Zanzal and Barb Rowlandson as we discuss divorce. Are you someone in the middle of coming out and you realize that you will need to...
Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out 1. Finding Community
Dec 13, 2022 | Coming Out
https://youtu.be/XM8xXL-y8ZE Anne-Marie Zanzal and Barb Rowlandson talk about the five things they wised they knew before coming out. Day one is how to find community! Lots of great suggestions and...
Finding Your Beyond
Dec 2, 2022 | Beyond
This December it was six years ago I left my marriage of twenty-seven years to my now ex-husband. My life has changed in so many ways since that time. For the last four and a half years I have...
Lament for the Queer Community
The shooting at Club Q happened in Colorado Springs this past weekend. I woke up on Sunday morning with the horror of the news. Saddened that another senseless murder has hit our...
Surviving The Holidays
Nov 16, 2022 | Family
https://youtu.be/q99RzSovgA8 Survival Plan For The Holidays! Join Barb Rowlandson and I as we give survival tips for navigating the holidays when you are coming out and/or getting divorced!Reach out...
National Coming Out Day
Oct 10, 2022 | Coming Out
This Tuesday, October 11, 2022, is National Coming Out Day. As a coming out coach I get a lot of questions about this day. If you don’t know the history of this day here is a great...
My One Wild and Precious Life
Sep 30, 2022 | Life Beyond Coming Out
Below my signature line of my email I have the quote: “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” It is from the poem The Summer Day by the renowned poet Mary Oliver....
Coming Out & Beyond Season 3 Episode 10 | Christine’s Story
Aug 4, 2022 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast
https://youtu.be/wvZfuuVHUhE Christine Gardner Terpening is an artist, an entrepreneur, a mother, and also a late-in-life lesbian. Christine was born and raised in the rural community of...
Coming Out & Beyond Season 3 Episode 9 | Michelle’s Story
Jul 28, 2022 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 3
https://youtu.be/2MSc-diu0io Michelle identifies as a member of the LGBTQIA+ family as intersex. In this podcast she shares her story of finding out that she is intersex at 15 and how her family...
Coming Out & Beyond: Season 3 Episode 8 | Mary’s Story
Jul 13, 2022 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 3
https://youtu.be/yNUOrmoHDvk Mary is a transformational travel junkie and explorer of inner and outer landscapes. She loves to discover what lights people up and help move them in that direction. As...
Coming Out & Beyond Stories + Support Season 3 Episode 7 | Ash & Dawna’s Story
Jul 8, 2022 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast
https://youtu.be/9HYuZ0psEsE Ash France (she/her) is a somatic practitioner who works one on one with queer women who are coming out later in life and are longing to create secure relationships as...
It’s Not a Lifestyle by Marissa Mitchell
Jul 7, 2022 | Coming Out Later in Life, Gay
By Marissa Mitchell The word lifestyle is often used to describe what it means to be LGBTQIA+ in this world. My friend Marissa Mitchell has written a great piece that captures many of my...
Claiming Our Courage
Jun 14, 2022 | Coming Out Coaching
https://youtu.be/UIG-VJ0i3qU In this coming out journey we are required to find our courage again and again. It is not a one time static event, but something we have to chose. How can we chose to be...