https://youtu.be/JPq3GGk6BhM Some mornings change everything. Marissa Mitchell was 39, a teacher and army veteran in southern Indiana, married to her junior high sweetheart and quietly certain that the distance she felt in her marriage was a problem she could fix if...
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Podcast Season 7
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 33 | High Libidos, Straight Girl Crushes & Coming Out Later with Special Guests Barbara Rowlandson & Tonda McKay
https://youtu.be/kPU9ALkt3Qg It is the second Friday of the month, which means Anne-Marie is back with the company she loves most: her fellow coach Barbara Rowlandson and her wife Tonda McKay. This is the monthly conversation so many of you tell us is your favorite,...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 32 | How to Stop Letting Fear Run Your Life Joined By Regular Guest Anna Empey
https://youtu.be/vdzjGPMTzqc What if fear is not a stop sign but a signal that you are growing? In this month's first Friday conversation, Anne-Marie is joined by regular guest Anna Empey, business development consultant and LGBTQ+ coach, for an honest look at fear....
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 31 | Compulsory Heterosexuality and Coming Home to Yourself (Originally Aired Season 5)
https://youtu.be/5SAAWUmNtzc This week we return to one of our most beloved conversations from the archives, my talk with Dr. Mallory Hanfling, a fellow later in life queer woman, therapist, and the creator of the term Firefly. Mallory shares her story with such...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 30 | The Firefly Journey: What the Research Tells Us About Coming Out Later in Life Featuring Special Guest Dr. Mallory Hanfling
https://youtu.be/vU2qd1QsEc8 What if the single biggest factor in whether we come out, when we come out, and how we heal along the way is the community around us? Dr. Mallory Hanfling returns to the show, this time with research in hand. Mallory recently completed her...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 29 | The Boy Who Skated Anyway: Stef Vachon’s Story
https://youtu.be/IQYw1DkPkeY Content note: This conversation includes language that references homophobic slurs and a discussion of suicidal ideation and mental health struggles. Please listen with care, and reach out for support if you need it. What happens...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 28 | Real Talk on Sapphic Dating and Relationships With Special Guests Tonda McKay & Barbara Rowlandson
https://youtu.be/NXWUe52DKmM It is the second Friday of the month, which means Anne-Marie is joined by dating coach Barbara Rowlandson and Nashville photographer Tonda McKay to talk all things sapphic dating and relationships. This month, the trio takes on four real...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 27 | 🏳️🌈Allyship That Truly Matters Featuring Special Guest Anna Empey
https://youtu.be/K3WHdswmEVk When you come out to someone, you learn very quickly to tell the difference between the half embrace and the full embrace. The half embrace turns the conversation back to your husband, your children, your family system within the first...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 26 | Finding a Self I Couldn’t Name: Part 2- Dahron Johnson’s Story of Learning to Trust Her Inner Voice
https://youtu.be/MofiVTAqPJg In Part 2 of this conversation, Anne-Marie Zanzal continues her talk with Dahron Johnson, a trans woman, advocate, lifelong cyclist, and chair of the Metro Human Relations Commission in Nashville, who came out in her late forties after...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 25 | Finding a Self I Couldn’t Name, Part I: Dahron Johnson on Faith, Advocacy, & Making Room for Us
https://youtu.be/prgA_80EnuI Dahron Johnson grew up surrounded by voices. Thousands of books in her parents' home, two people who met in divinity school, and a faith that taught her every person is fearfully and wonderfully made. And still, for decades, she could not...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 24 | Your Sapphic Dating Dilemmas, Answered with Love (and Zero Filter) With Special Guest Tonda McKay & Barbara Rowlandson
https://youtu.be/pnO_UTEIIlk This month we return to our lesbian dating and relationship conversation, the one we share on the second Friday of every month, and by popular request Tonda is back at the table! Anne-Marie is joined by her wife, Tonda McKay, our...
Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 23 | Grieving the Living: The Estrangement No One Prepares You For With Anna Empey
https://youtu.be/z3zB5owko7U TW: This episode includes an honest discussion about grief, estrangement, and suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised. There is a kind of loss that arrives without a funeral. No casserole on the doorstep, no card in the mail, no...
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