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Coming Out & Beyond Support For Women Questioning Their Sexuality Later in Life | Season 7 Episode 40 | Coach vs. Therapist? Knowing What You Need, Joined By Regular Guest Anna Empey

What is the difference between a coach and a therapist, and how do you know which one you need? Anne-Marie Zanzal welcomes back her frequent guest and longtime business coach Anna Empey, owner of Business Inspired Solution, for an honest conversation about the kinds of support available to women coming out later in life.

Both women have spent years in therapy, and both are clear that it matters. They talk about what licensed therapists do that coaches cannot, why anyone leaving a high-control religion deserves a therapist who truly understands religious trauma, and how a good coach knows when to refer out. Anne-Marie shares how she resisted the word “coach” for years before becoming the first coming out coach, and how her work as a hospice chaplain taught her to sit with people without trying to fix them.

They also explore the difference between group therapy and mutual support, why knowing your values makes so many decisions easier, and what to ask before you hire anyone to walk beside you. Whether you are questioning, coming out, or building a business, you will leave with a clearer sense of what support fits your life right now.

If this conversation stirred something in you, This Authentic Life may be the next step. It is a 16-week cohort program for women coming out later in life, and you will meet with the same small community of women every week, women who come to know your story, along with Barb and me. The October Cohort meets Wednesdays at 7:00 PM Central on Zoom, beginning October 7. Enrollment includes two private calls with me, membership in our Authentically Us community, and immediate access to the Maybe I Am Not Straight course and the Catalyst Chapter, so you can begin before the first session. Enrollment for this cohort closes October 6.

You can learn more and enroll here:

If you are building a business or ready to grow a side project into something more, Anna Empey’s Deep Dive is a wonderful place to begin. It is the same process I started with eight years ago, and it helped me build a business that reflects my values and sounds like me. Anna has a couple of Deep Dive spaces left this year, along with two openings for six-month private business coaching.

Learn more here:

https://businessinspiredsolutions.co/

Join us next week for the 200th episode of Coming Out & Beyond! We are celebrating this podcasting milestone with Anne-Marie, Tonda, Barb and Anna. We’ll be reflecting on some of our favourite episodes, coming out stories, and chatting about what’s in store for the future!

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