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  • Understanding What a Catalyst Relationship Looks Like
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  • Why it Can Go Downhill Even if You Feel like “Soulmates”
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What My Clients Have to Say About Working Together

SB

“Being a part of one of Anne-Marie’s support groups has helped me feel more comfortable talking about my sexuality, is helping me to move forward in my life after my divorce and is helping me to do the work as I become the best version of myself. Anne-Marie is a comforting and supportive facilitator who wants everyone in the group to feel heard and validated. I highly recommend signing up and committing to this. It will help you more than you could expect!”

Anne H.

“I sought out Anne-Marie’s counsel and guidance to help me deal with some of my feelings of guilt. Anne-Marie is a fantastic listener, showed a great deal of compassion and empathy and offered very insightful and heartfelt advice on how to care for myself in this process of grieving and letting go. After a session I feel uplifted, empowered, and loved.”

JBS

“Being in this group the last six weeks has helped me in my process SO much!! I felt so supported and so much less isolated. It gave me the courage to fully come out to myself and my husband and then to my kids. And I know I will be connected to the folks in the group for a good long time. Anne Marie is so validating and supportive! Can’t recommend it enough!!”

Find Coming Out & Beyond Support Through Individual Coaching, Support Groups & More

Anne-Marie takes a unique approach to leading support groups and in her on-on-one coaching. If you work with her you can count on her to listen with the intent to hear and understand you. She will also ask reflective questions and be curious about your personal experiences, thoughts, and feelings.

Coaching

We have a few different ways you can get coaching & support through your journey.

Lavender Dating >

Coaching and support that helps you navigate the dating world, discover your confidence, and be supported along the way.

Courses

Anne-Marie has created a variety of mini-courses to help you through your journey from exploring and understanding your sexuality, navigating divorce, and coming out later in life.

You can get each course individually or you can get all of the courses in the This Authentic Life.

Maybe I'm Not Straight?

Are you questioning your sexual orientation and feeling unsure about your next steps? Our comprehensive mini course is designed to provide you with the tools and support you need to explore your identity and embrace your authentic self.

Strengthening Love 

You love each other. But lately, it feels like you’re speaking different emotional languages.

Strengthening Love helps lesbian couples reconnect, repair, and rebuild emotional safety—together.

The Catalyst Chapter

Your first queer relationship can feel like a spark that changes everything — opening your heart, shifting your identity, and showing you what love can truly feel like. But these relationships can be fraught with challenges we never anticipated. 

The Messy Middle – Coming Soon
This Authentic Life - Coming Soon

Workshops

I have a variety of short online workshops, that will bring the community together around important topics and conversations to support cis and trans people on their coming out journey.

Retreats & Special Events

Anne-Marie is collaborating with a variety of women in the LGBTQ+ Community to create nature-focued retreats to help you on your journey. Find all the details about the retreats coming up.

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The information shared on this website is offered for education, reflection, and personal growth. It is not intended to provide medical, mental health, legal, or clinical advice, nor to replace care from licensed professionals.

Coaching, courses, and community spaces are designed to support insight and self-understanding, but they are not therapy. Please consult a qualified healthcare or mental health professional for concerns related to diagnosis or treatment.

You are always the expert on your own life, and we encourage you to seek the support that best meets your needs.