The first time I went to Provincetown as a gay person was when I was with my now-wife Tonda McKay. I am from the Northeast and knew all about this charming little seaside town at the very tip of Cape Cod in Massachusetts. Provincetown—lovingly known as Ptown—is a...
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Six Entirely Selfish & Completely Valid Reasons You Should Come to Wing Women Weekend
Wing Women Weekend happens on Oct 16-20th in Provincetown, MA, during that community's annual Women's Week. For those who aren't in the know yet, Provincetown is, like, probably the gayest small town in America, and Women's Week is basically lesbian Mecca. Every year...
Banality of Evil in Tennessee
By Anne-Marie Zanzal, M.Div. In the Christian religious tradition, this is Easter weekend. If you are unfamiliar, Easter is the holiday that recognizes when Jesus Christ was put to death by the religious elite who were the power holders in his community. With great...
Nashville Pride Conference September 16th- 18th 2021
Five years ago I was in the middle of the coming out process to the LGBTQIA+ community. I was fifty-two years old and drowning in doubt, fear and grief. I had joined an online FB support group for people like me and it was a lifeline. They were having a...
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