80% of gender is between your ears (not your legs) says, transition coach Wendy Cole. Wendy’s remarkable story begins in the 1950s, when as a very young child she knew she was a girl. In her conversation with host Anne-Marie Zanzal, Wendy shares her struggles in early childhood with her parents and psychiatric professionals who gave her harmful labels, how she coped in a heteronormative world, her eventual breaking point when she finally stepped into her identity as a woman, her friendship with her ex-wife, figuring out her sexuality post-transition, and much more. 

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Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coming-out-beyond-lgbtqia-stories/id1569859569

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/27kocr4llm6syHKaeX1x9e

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YouTube: https://youtu.be/8HhnrcuFA8Uhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/8HhnrcuFA8U

You can find out more about Wendy and her coaching service at https://wendycolegtm.net/staging/9199/

A book that Wendy recommends is ‘Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself’ by Dr. Joe Dispenza: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12951631-breaking-the-habit-of-being-yourself

Wendy’s coming out song is Estimated Prophet by the Grateful Dead: https://youtu.be/2R-_Hsurm7Y?si=XXxElw7U972zGOhb