https://youtu.be/TQBvwUYNgqo Activist, scholar, mental health advocate, and The Trevor Project and WClub volunteer JJ King (they/them) is Anne-Marie's special guest on this episode of...
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Blog: What Are We? Situationships and How to Handle Them
Nov 14, 2024 | Later in Life, Relationships
Have you ever found yourself asking that question of the person you're dating? Situationships can be very confusing and hard on the heart. One minute, you're enjoying time together, relaxed, and...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 44 | Charlie Sprinkman Everywhere is Queer
Nov 8, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/7UC_K04jwtw Charlie Sprinkman (he/they) is a young person with a vision! After working in a job that required him to travel across 50+ states, Charlie recognized there was a lack of...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 43 | Annie M. Henderson Later-In-Life Journeys
Nov 1, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/8cdlZrsREME Though there are often similarities in themes and experiences among women who come out later in life, no two people share the exact same story. In this week's episode,...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 42 | Lavender Dating with Barb Rowlandson
Oct 25, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/Ym1bw1002ck Women: dating in the LGBTQIA+ community, especially if you haven't dated in a very long time, or if you're new to dating other queer people, can feel very daunting!...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 41 | KaRon Spriggs-Bethea
Oct 18, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/e12DQ5EjncI KaRon Spriggs-Bethea, DSW, LCSW, educator and expert on the subject of bullying. KaRon experienced bullying as a young person, and today uses his expertise to support...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 40 | National Coming Out Day!
Oct 11, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/sHTg7IQMcMM DOWNLOAD, LIKE & SUBSCRIBE! Happy National Coming Out Day, 2024! In this episode, host Anne-Marie Zanzal chats with two of her favorite lesbians: her wife, Tonda,...
Straight or Not? Signs You Might Be Queer
Oct 10, 2024 | Coming Out, LGBTQ+
Are you questioning your sexual orientation? Sometimes, the signs that we're not straight can be subtle or unexpected. In this blog post, we'll delve deeper into some common indicators that might...
Coming Out + Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 39 | Judy’s Story
Oct 4, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR5NfuOBnvg This week on CO&B and in honor of LGBTQ+ History Month, we are revisiting an episode from season 1 featuring Judy Wilson. Judy grew up in Nashville,...
National Coming Out Day
Oct 3, 2024 | Coming Out
This Friday, October 11, 2024, is National Coming Out Day. As a coming out coach I get a lot of questions about this day. If you don’t know the history of this day here is a great place to...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode. 38 | Dr. Robin Sesan
Sep 27, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/u_Nv5bZSM0U In this rebooted episode of Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories, we revisit host Anne-Marie Zanzal's conversation with Dr. Robin Sesan. Robin is the couples expert...
Provincetown: How a Quaint Cape Cod Town Became a Gay Mecca
Sep 26, 2024 | LGBTQ+, News and Events
The first time I went to Provincetown as a gay person was when I was with my now-wife Tonda McKay. I am from the Northeast and knew all about this charming little seaside town at the very tip of...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 37 | Sarah St John
Sep 20, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/lWm_ABMNtYE Coming out is often an ongoing process, and sometimes people come out selectively to the people around them. It is not unusual for our family members to be the last to...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 36 | Jillian Abby
Sep 13, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/xkW1nqk9LRs In her book, "Perfectly Queer," author Jillian Abby recounts her journey of coming out later in life and overcoming chronic perfectionism. Jillian began...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 35 | Emily Bettdur
Sep 6, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/_JwlGWCt9vM After 10 years of unravelling her sexual identity, later-in-life lesbian Emily Bettdur came out and transformed her life. Now a later-in-life dating coach for women,...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 34 | Juliana Allen
Aug 30, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/XVrHSrOG_Bg Have you ever felt so disconnected from your body that you don't know what you feel or want? This week's guest on Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories is Juliana...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 33 | Wes Schmitz
Aug 23, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/oeSqQ9TCMAk This week's guest, Wes Schmitz, was raised in a small farming community in central Illinois. While growing up, he retreated deeper and deeper into the closet, forced...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 32 | Raymond J Brune
Aug 16, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/mGW-CzvdPS0 Raymond J Brune is Anne-Marie's special guest on this week's episode of Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories. So many people are a slave to their trauma; trauma...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 31 | Jamie Winter
Aug 9, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/bU81Gt-yAy4 This week on Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ stories, host Anne-Marie Zanzal chats with psychotherapist and art therapist, Jamie Winters. Jamie's professional...
My Later In Life Story by Dr. Robin Sesan, Ph.D. & Couples Therapist
Aug 8, 2024 | Later in Life
Hi. I am Robin Sesan. A late 60ish cis-gender woman, white, Jewish, and later in life lesbian. I am also a psychologist, a couples’ therapist, an artist, a mother to two adult children, and a doting...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 30 | Rhonda Landers and Jonda Valentine
Aug 2, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/2FlkLKku7s4 In this very special Part 1 episode of Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories, host Anne-Marie Zanzal speaks with identical twins Ronda Landers and Jonda Valentine,...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 29 | Dr. Andreya Jones & Angie Zimmerman
Jul 26, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5
https://youtu.be/_y2fQS0URnY Therapist Dr. Andreya Jones and sex and relationship coach Angie Zimmerman are kink-aware practitioners whose work is centered on helping individuals have more rewarding...
Eight Myths We Need to Let Go of About The Lesbian Community
Jul 22, 2024 | Later in Life, Relationships
Eight Myths We Need to Let Go of About The Lesbian Community When you came out did you realize that you may have been ill-informed about the lesbian community? That there are a lot of myths created...
Six Entirely Selfish & Completely Valid Reasons You Should Come to Wing Women Weekend
Jul 19, 2024 | News and Events, Self Care
Wing Women Weekend happens on Oct 16-20th in Provincetown, MA, during that community's annual Women's Week. For those who aren't in the know yet, Provincetown is, like, probably the gayest small...
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories | Season 5 Episode 28 | Ayce Kyptyn
Jul 19, 2024 | Coming Out & Beyond: Stories + Support Podcast, Podcast Season 5, Uncategorized
https://youtu.be/_C3zcIkbRwI This week on CO&B, host Anne-Marie Zanzal welcomes somatic embodiment and sex coach, Ayce Kypton. Ayce's story relates a journey of coming into his authentic gender,...